yes yun, that is a prudential ad. haha.
it is a general statement to say that all men in singapore are unromantic also the advertisement of asking the partner to buy a flat together might be romantic to the masses of people because it media depends not only on the individual who is being reached out to but to the majority target audience who thinks that it's so romantic proposing/ being proposed to in that manner. the advertisement to us may seem really distasteful but it works for the rest of the singaporean society because generally the conservative and narrow thinking is attracted and will be tickled by advertisements such as that. This society simply is lacking in creativity and openess.
SO
just to let it all out.
1. i don't really care how and what is and are being conveyed from one person to another and so on and so forth.
2. i don't really care about anything actually because it seems to me that you all just don't know how much i really care.
3. it might not have occured to you all that you 3 play a really big part in my life.
4. admitting that you're not always right and accepting constructive criticism is better then thinking that i'm judging you cause who am i to judge and to me you're all the best.
5. when i trust someone, i totally trust the person and when the person betray the trust factor, it's going to take me some time.
6. i rather be ask frankly then have you all snoop behind me.
7. if you're pissed then be pissed. don't be a 2 headed snake and cheat yourself.
8. i'm not blind, not deaf, not dumb, not stupid and i have my own thoughts. i have my own rights and i can say whatever i please.
9. no one owes any of us a living. i don't owe you, you don't owe me.
10. my secrets are told to you and i expect them to stay only with you and no one else because your secrets have never left my mouth. your bf is as far as it goes.
11. after all these years, i realised not only do we keep secrets from each other, we treat each other like shit but at the same time we are the bestest of friends.
all these applies to all of you.
lastly, i want to say to jia, if you are going to mix your personal feelings of hate towards me with work it'll only be affecting you. and because you don't want to talk and to make things easier, i'll just put in down here, i told you that time at suntec when we went to retrieve your phone that you're really slacking and that you should buck up. you agreed didn't you? so when asked by our other 2 friends how are you doing in work i said your working attitude is quite bad. isn't it not true? you've been slacking, you've been late. a few people have been asking me why are you perpetually late and how the hell am i suppose to know? i believe as your friend and supposedly your "bestest friend" i told you in a different manner cause you're one who handles situations in a negative light.
so you say i'm talking behind your back to our 2 other best friends. how can it be called bad mouthing when i already told you beforehand what i told them? just because it's in different words so it's different? in the first place what makes you think i've been bad mouthing you what makes you think you're the one who hasn't stepped on my toes?
you bluntly stated that your manager knows your working attitude the best but you forgot that he only knows you for a month or so and to know that you trust the people you just so recently know more then you trust me is fucking hurtful. if career is your first priority which is good then so be it, and you'll have our support. it doesn't mean you have to be a different person. am i like a threat to you is that what's troubling your concience? if it is then i have no solution. i just hope things go back to normal because this thing i can see is affecting your mood and so this is all i have to say. fullstop.
-nice entry to start a commotion. all in all i love you all.
